Recognizing God's Answers to Prayer
God has a plan. Everything that happens in this world is part of that plan.
God is in charge and He has reasons for things happening the way they do. When we ask for something that falls in line with His plan and His goals for us RIGHT NOW, He'll give us what we ask RIGHT NOW.
When we ask for something that we DON'T NEED RIGHT NOW, He may wait until the time is right. God is seldom early, but never late.
How God Answers Prayer
Depending on what we ask, when we ask, and what God is doing, He will answer our prayers in different ways.
His answers will generally be:
Yes
Yes, and I'll give you even more than you asked for
Yes, but not now
Yes, but not as you expect
No
No, but I'll give you something else instead
Nothing, silence, no answer
As we build our relationship with God, we'll learn to know His voice. We'll learn to know what answer He gives us. A yes, no, or wait will be clear.
1 ) Yes
When what we ask is in God's will for us Now, we get what we ask. It may not be right under our noses, but it will be there.
1 John 5:14
And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:
2) Yes, and I'll give you more than you asked for
When we're right with God, and we ask according to His will, AND we can be good stewards of what He has for us, He sometimes gives us even more than we ask.
2 Chronicles 1:11-12
And God said to Solomon, Because this was in thine heart, and thou hast not asked riches, wealth, or honour, nor the life of thine enemies, neither yet hast asked long life; but hast asked wisdom and knowledge for thyself, that thou mayest judge my people, over whom I have made thee king: Wisdom and knowledge is granted unto thee; and I will give thee riches, and wealth, and honour, such as none of the kings have had that have been before thee, neither shall there any after thee have the like.
Matthew 25:20-21
And so he that had received five talents came and brought other five talents, saying, Lord, thou deliveredst unto me five talents: behold, I have gained beside them five talents more. His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.
Verse 29
For unto every one that hath shall be given, and he shall have abundance: but from him that hath not shall be taken away even that which he hath.
3) Yes, but not now
Sometimes God makes us wait. Maybe the time isn't right. Maybe we're not yet ready for what He wants us to have.
Maybe He's waiting for us to decide that His INVOLVEMENT in our lives is more important to us than His actual ANSWER.
Maybe we just need a patience lesson. Whatever the case, we sometimes wait.
Job 30:20
I cry unto thee, and thou dost not hear me: I stand up, and thou regardest me not.
Job 42:12
So the LORD blessed the latter end of Job more than his beginning: for he had fourteen thousand sheep, and six thousand camels, and a thousand yoke of oxen, and a thousand she asses.
Luke 18:7-8 (ff)
And shall not God avenge his own elect, which cry day and night unto him, though he bear long with them? I tell you that he will avenge them speedily...
Psalms 40:1 SAYS
I waited patiently for the LORD; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.
4) Yes, but not as we expect
Often we pray, and don't see the answers He gives us, because we're looking in the wrong places. We look for the fruit and not the tree, we want to KNOW without having to LEARN:
We want Patience without learning how to Wait
We want Strength without learning how to Overcome Difficulties
We want Wisdom without learning how to Solve Problems
We want Prosperity without learning how to Work
We want Courage without learning how to Face Danger
We want Favors without learning to Recognize Opportunities
When we ask for these things, God answers by exposing us to situations that TEACH us what we need to know.
The old adage "be careful what you ask for, you may get it" is useful here.
If you ask God for PATIENCE, He'll make you WAIT, which develops patience.
If you ask for more COURAGE, you'll face DANGER, which develops courage.
If you ask for Wisdom, you'll have PROBLEMS to solve, which develops wisdom.
God is concerned with CHARACTER more than COMFORT. If God needs to put us in uncomfortable situations to teach us what we need to know, He will.
5) No
Sometimes God says no. It may be that we're asking for something we can't handle. It may be that we are asking with wrong motives.
James 4:3
Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
It may be that He just has other plans for us and our friends.
Sometimes He doesn't heal.
Sometimes He lets someone die. Sometimes He allows us to go through trouble to strengthen us. Sometimes
His purposes and plans are better served by not doing what we ask, even when we plead with tears.
Matthew 26:39
And he went a little further, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.
Verses 45-46
Then cometh he to his disciples, and saith unto them, Sleep on now, and take your rest: behold, the hour is at hand, and the Son of man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. Rise, let us be going: behold, he is at hand that doth betray me.
6) No, but I'll give you something else instead
We might be "in love" and pray desperately to have a certain person who, by divine intervention, isn't the one we end up with, and we praise Him in hindsight.
We may plead to continue the work we've been doing for Him, when He needs us somewhere else.
We may desperately seek Him to remove a situation in our lives that is teaching us something we need to teach people about next year.
Whatever the case, sometimes God has something else better or more important for us, and we need to recognize His will and submit to His direction.
Deuteronomy 3:25-27
25 I pray thee, let me go over, and see the good land that is beyond Jordan, that goodly mountain, and Lebanon.
26 But the LORD was wroth with me for your sakes, and would not hear me: and the LORD said unto me, Let it suffice thee; speak no more unto me of this matter.
27 Get thee up into the top of Pisgah, and lift up thine eyes westward, and northward, and southward, and eastward, and behold it with thine eyes: for thou shalt not go over this Jordan.
2 Corinthians 12:8-9---Paul's affliction
For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
7) Nothing, dead silence from God
This is different from a NO.
When God says No to something, we still feel His presence in our lives.
Silence from God is the hardest answer of all. We plead and beg, but feel like God's not there.
When God is turning His face from us, there is something wrong on our end.
Maybe it's a commitment problem, maybe it's a sin we haven't confessed and repented of, maybe we're just trying so hard to solve the problem we're not letting God solve it for us.
We need to let go and let God.
When someone is drowning, a lifeguard will sometimes have to wait until the person is completely out of strength from flailing around trying to save himself before coming to the rescue, else the drowning person takes them both down.
Similarly, God waits patiently for us to stop fighting so He can take care of us.
Psalms 68:19
Blessed be the Lord, who daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah.
Isaiah 59:2
But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.
Proverbs 28:9
He that turneth away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be abomination.
Hebrews 11:6
But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
Getting to know God's answers takes time and commitment.
We learn to hear His voice by spending time with
Him in prayer, and in His word. The more we rely on Him, the more He answers.
The more He answers, the more we recognize
His answers. The better we know Him, the easier it will be
to Know what He's doing.
See the booklet, "Answer to Unanswered Prayer"
http://www.garnertedarmstrong.org/pubs/prayer.htm